contrib: always shows the list of know contribs before building

We also want to know about native tools that may or may not be there.

And add missing make tools when building ios targets.

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v3:

• rebased on top of !2589 (closed) so we can see the effects on both together, since !2589 (closed) won't make tools on ios builds.
• build tools with emscripten prebuilt