vulkan/swapchain: work around nvidia swapchain resizing bug

This is probably not the proper solution, but it's better than the status quo of crashing and hanging the player. Some day, we definitely need to dig into this and investigate how and why the hang happens, but for now, this effectively solves the issue.

Fixes: https://github.com/mpv-player/mpv/issues/11509 Fixes: https://github.com/mpv-player/mpv/issues/8360 Fixes: #200 (closed)